Mean mother (in law)
When I met and married my wife 4yr ago I really didn't have much interaction with her mother. She and her husband live in the same town but my wife didn't get along with either of them much and so I didn't know her. What I did know was that she was really mean and a real ** and she cheated on all her husbands she ever had. Well, in the last year or so she and my wife have sort of gotten on better and so we are around them more. The mother's attitude is still super mean and bitchy, and she's sooooo self-centered and demanding. EVERYTHING is about her. Always. Here's the problem. I love her meanness and bitchiness, and for some reason, I just fell in love with that. And with her. She has no idea how I feel, but if I had a chance, I'd dump my wife and marry her mother. I'd do it today.
What happened next?! I've just read to the end and I need to know! Did you meet her? Did you f_uck?!
What would you like to know?
Why have you not commented back?
By what you have written about her, the woman sounds like a mental case. Do not -- DO NOT -- get involved with her. Not only will she burn down your marriage, she will surely burn down your life, as well. Stay away. In fact...….. RUN!!!!!
…. i agree with ^this^ totally ……….. you should never play with fire....and this ** is the fire...……… you need to abandon this quest you're on..... and stick with your wife...… her mother will destroy you....and she will enjoy doing it...… look back at all the men she's had and all the ones she's been married to just in the 4 years you have known her...…. it's a path of total destruction ………. many many years ago i had an affair with a young girl just like this older one (and mine wasn't even married yet though she did have a couple kids) …. and she did her best to ruin my life......she blew up my marriage (laughing while she did it) but she tried to wreck me too...… just for ** FUN (well, for fun and for money) ...trust me dude...……. this woman you want is not the "good kind" of **......she's the scary kind of **...… toying with the insane will surely be the end of you...…. she is pure evil......don't go there...……….
Thank you for your warning, but as I've written below, they say that our hearts want what they want and we are often powerless to resist that. I believe that to be true. And I believe that's where I am. It's not as though she's "tempting" me, she isn't. I have simply fallen in love with what I've seen of her and I want more. To be honest, I actually want it all, not just more.
I think the two of you are going have a lot of nasty fun, and then I think your dream will come true. She'll be treating you like ** while she's out auditioning the husband(s) she intends to marry after she divorces you. :)
I hope that everything you predict turns out to be true, except for the divorcing part. Yes, I do want to marry her, and I want her out having fun at least a couple nights a week. I can't imagine anything sexier than having a wife that's as sexually active -- or as sexually aggressive -- as this woman is. I hope we get married, yes. But I hope she stays married to me, no matter how much she cheats, and no matter how mean and bitchy she gets. I love her for all that. Thanks for your input!
Start inviting her to meet you for coffee or lunch near your workplace. Be sure she CAN'T invite her husband or your wife on those occasions (because they're working or otherwise obligated). Make sure it will only be the two of you. Make it happen at least once every couple weeks. Then, more often. When you and your wife go to her house, begin kissing the mother hello and goodbye, just on the cheek. Then, over time, on the lips. Hug her hello and goodbye, too, and make the hugs closer and more lasting each time. Eventually, when you hug her, allow her to feel that hard-on you get going when she's around. If she mentions it, tell her "it's all your fault for being so ** HOT". Stay after her. Make it obvious what you want, and she will likely give it to you. You know you want it. Let her know you want it.
That could work! It may take some time to put in place, but I can see it producing results! I really like the idea of hugging and kissing her, even right in front of my wife! **! So hot!
She sounds awesome. If she has cheated on her husbands before, she's probably hot too. I bet it wouldn't take much to get into her pants.
She's a regular cheater, and apparently, always has been. My wife told me that for a short time maybe 10yrs ago, she was cheating on her then-current husband with an ex-husband from 5-6yrs before that. So, yeah, she is hot as all **. I can't tell you she's beautiful: she's really kind of ordinary-looking and a little on the heavy side (but as you would expect, that also means heavy on the T&A). Lots of men seem able to get into her pants, but mostly she's the one doing the choosing: seriously, dude, she can get any man she wants. I've seen her work her act and it's mesmerizing to mere mortals like me. :) Thanks for the line and the support: I would love love LOVE to get into those pants!
This is normal, most men only get with their wives so they can have there mother in laws.
You have to have a relationship with her and the sooner the better if comes down to it, dump the eventually but not until you are with her mother
I hope it happens the way you described. I truly do. That I get with the mother and am then able to end my marriage to the daughter. I have fantasized about that very thing for over a year, even right down to the way it would happen. We'll be at their house for a part of the day today, and I'm going to have to find a way to hide the hard-on this woman gives me whenever I'm around her......or even think about her.
You have to let her Know of your interested so it can happen!
Any excuse for body contact ,compliment her, find ways for you and her to be alone, find little jobs to do for her so you can go back and be alone
WOW! Those are fantastic recommendations, and I intend to put ALL of them -- each and every one -- into immediate use. And maybe as soon as the weekend! I love her body (true love, yes, and true desire) and just being in contact with that magnificent body will be a surreal pleasure, and a supernatural one. I want to be next to her, and then I want to be in her. And I definitely want to get her alone and see what happens. Thanks for the suggestions. But I have to ask. You seem to be very well-informed on this topic: should I take from that fact that you've become involved in a relationship with your mother-in-law (or maybe more than one!) in the past?? Tell all!!! Please!!!!!
Yes! I do have experience in this matter, but before I divulge, some pointers.
The two key rules to getting any woman or man is, confidence' and be mean and keep em keen, that's exactly what you have fell for in your mother in law (MIL).
Have you wandered what's she doing with him?
With all that you have made a great start, by avoiding her you made her think she did something wrong! You can work on that!
Tell you wife you need to talk to her mum alone, as to make sure she is alright, your wife will allow it! and make sure you are both alone, say you didn't realise you had avoided her whilst holding her hand attentively, (cup one hand in both yours)
Or if you feel confident enough hold her forearm up to her elbow and allow you ** to wander it should be around her breast.
Then use these words I'm sorry if you were offended don't wait for a response, just kiss straight on the lips! Listen to her body if she responds you may seal the deal by the weekend!!
How did it go yesterday? Keep us informed on your progress, and I will do what ever I can to make beautiful dream a reality!
After finally confessing my feelings here, even though it's anonymous, my desire and my adrenaline were reeeeeeally pumping, and I was reeeeeeally worked up over her, and just the thought of her would give me a raging **. So, I tried to kind of stay away from her all day. There were people mingling on their front porch, and some on the patio/deck area out back, so whichever place she was in, I tried to be in the other one, so she wouldn't notice my intense arousal and put two and two together. My wife and I wound up staying longer than we planned, and late in the day, the mother came to my wife and asked if something was "wrong" with me, since I never seemed to be around. My wife had no clue what was happening, of course, so she unintentionally covered for me and blew it off. I'd be happy to let you know what's happening, and I really appreciate your asking. But mostly I appreciate you being so encouraging. That's very kind. Have a great weekend!