My husband is getting fat

When I got married to my husband a few years ago my mom advised me to put a belly on him to reduce the chances of him straying. Well could I for the life of me succeed cause after the first year he had only put on a few pounds. My mom then advised me to start using lard and full fat butter in my cooking, well after a few months his belly popped out like a jack in the box. Three years marries he has gained nearly 60 pounds.

How’s he like his new pot belly?

I don’t think he’s fully embracing it lol, but it’s here to stay as far as I’m concerned. He didn’t expect to have a belly on him like that at 28. Even his mom is impressed and keeps patting it.

What did his mom say and think?

60 lbs. is a lot! What’s he think about that?

Adjusting to his new belly. Keeps asking me why I haven’t gained lol. He’s 230lbs now and I’m just letting nature take its course. My mom joked about fattening him up to 300lbs which would make him fatter than his dad at 30 😀

My husband has a sweet tooth, so I made sure to keep the candy bowl full and keep lots of ice cream and cake in the fridge. For our honeymoon we did a 3 week cruise, and I made sure he was eating non-stop. By our first anniversary, he had put on 75 pounds and after three years, he’s weighing in at 285 pounds with a big round belly!

Do you like him that fat?

I'm petite (5 foot 2 and 110 pounds) and I like the contrast between my flat tummy and my husband's big belly.

My college girlfriend and I had to go back home after Spring Break this year because classes were cancelled. We are still dating long distance and have been since March. We usually FaceTime. Anyway, she told me she has been gaining weight with her mom’s cooking and no gym. I asked her how much and she said it’s been 20-25 pounds. I haven’t really seen her body since we always FaceTime, so she backed up and showed me. She now has a cute belly, and her ** and thighs are bigger. I didn’t know what to say because I think I really liked it. Not sure how to tell her, though.

That’s a big gain since March, her mom must be feeding her well and she is also comfort eating cause she misses you. Would you like a fat wife in the future?

She was always very sporty and could eat what she wanted because of how many calories she would burn training, so when she went back home, she kept her eating habits without keeping the daily training.
She is very pretty, and her face will always be pretty regardless of how much she weighs. From what I saw on FaceTime, she is still as beautiful as I remember. She’s just a little plumper, which didn’t look bad.

I sure hope she is missing me!

You think you really liked it or you know you really liked it?

I was very intrigued by it. Like, not grossed out my some extra belly fat. It was cute on her tummy. So I guess I was kind of into it.

Did she gain that on purpose?

I’m not sure. She had mentioned in the past that it’s difficult to be a woman and maintain a certain weight to be considered “attractive” by men. I don’t think I put that pressure on her, but maybe other guys or society in general has. So since she already has a boyfriend, maybe she did use this opportunity to loosen up a bit and relax on keeping her weight down. But she looks good. I told her last night that I think she looks good at the higher weight. She was surprised I said that.

I was devastated when my slim young husband left me 5 years ago for an older woman who must have weighed over 300 lbs. I moved away and they eventually married. Recently when I returned to the area to visit family I got a shock when I spotted them at the local shopping mall. Both must have gained over 100lbs each, her with her huge ** and swinging hips moving at all angles she could hardly walk. But the change in ex hubby gave the most satisfaction. His belly was hanging over his pants and it was swinging to the left as he walked. He was obviously uncomfortable carrying all that extra weight in front of him and his big fat double chin made me smile 😀

Sorry to hear about your marriage! 😔 But glad that you feel it’s working out.

Yea. I’m 38 now and met a guy a few years younger than me and moved in together 3 years ago. We are both really happy and he has developed a big foody tummy that I adore and hope that means he is content.

Sad about your marriage. I had a BF leave me in college for another girl. I thought he was the one and we would be getting married. Well, they just got married and I saw the pictures on Facebook. They’ve probably gained a combined 150 pounds over the last five years. Both look very big now. It made me feel a little better.

Yup, Facebook is great for that ,seeing how old and fat people got.

Have you been able to get over him?

Yea, I’m very happy with my gaining big boy lol

Lot of pregnant looking men down at the beach last week, hubby included. There were paunches everywhere and all different ages. Wives and girlfriends were having a fun time rubbing sun cream on their partners bigger or new paunch.

That sounds nice! Your man is fat, too?

Oh yes. Belly hanging low over his swimming shorts with his added weight gain. I enjoyed rubbing the sun cream on to that big soft belly

Would you say then women like extra weight/gain? Or do they just find it entertaining.

When I got married to my husband five years ago I could feel his ribs. After some tender loving care, over eating and 120lbs later, I would need a shovel to find them lol

That’s a lot of weight in a short amount of time.

A lot of his gain was in the first year when he gained 60lbs and a big love tummy. Also adjusting to living with a woman 90lbs heavier than him. But his gain has now slowed down, but he’s still gaining lol.

Quarantine has been interesting. I’ve always been a big eater, but college sports kept me slim. I feel like I’ve been slowly getting round since then. My girlfriend lives with her grandma so going to the gym isn’t really an option, and cardio just doesn’t really do it for me. I’ve been trying to watch what I eat, but I can’t help it, I prefer good, and big food. Anyway, My girlfriend and I didn’t see each other for the past two weeks. During this time I’ve been treating myself to my local favorites before I move at the end of the month. When she came over yesterday the first thing she did was giggle, poke my stomach and say “you’re a big boy.” Now usually I prefer me skinny and so does she, but that comment did something and I don’t know why.

That sounds interesting. Do you think she liked you a little bigger?

I’m not sure, but I know I like being her big boy

My wife patted my stomach last night and said she didn’t care if it was a boy or a girl, as long as we were both healthy. Quarantine has not been good for my waistline.

Ha ha ha!! That’s funny! What did you say? We’re you embarrassed at your fattening belly?

Ask her if she wants you fat?

How much weight did you gain in the two weeks?

Is she a plus size woman?

Did you like when she called you a big boy?

Had a heart warming sight the other day when I went out into the garden to find hubby lying like a beached whale on the sun lounger. I called him for his dinner and to see hungry hubby struggle to get up fighting with his belly rolls and moobs made me laugh. He used to be so slim but marriage changed that.

How big is he now?

He’s over 370lbs now, 60 inch waist. Married 8 years and has just gotten fat on my cooking.

That’s more than just fat. He’s a big boy now!

He’s my big boy. No doubt he will be hitting 400lbs by the time he’s 35. To think he was 150lbs when I married him, he had his gained his first big fat roll 2 years later. He gained with me during my 3 pregnancies, except I lost my weight and he couldn’t. But we are both happy and he loves eating my food.

I was a slim guy when I met my future wife 4 years ago. She is a latina woman, five years older, under 5 feet, just over 100lbs. When we got married 2 years ago she told me to relax and let her take care of me. That’s when she started to cook using all her moms old cook books. These days I’m now very overweight with a large belly, moobs and chubby face.

How does she feel about your new size?

She told me she loves it, she likes bigger men. She keeps saying “get rid of cheater belly” whatever that means. She told me the other night she’s only getting started which worries me a little tbh.

How much do you weigh atm?

255lbs. 90lbs gain in 2 and a half years. Mostly on my belly and moobs.

Has she put even more weight on you? What're you weighing in at now?

Fat guy’s opinion here. When I got with my girlfriend (now wife), she told me she would probably make me fat because that’s how she likes her man. I thought she was kidding, but five years later, I’m sitting here with a round and fat stomach on my couch with her rubbing the belly she created while we cuddle. Take your woman seriously if she says she wants to fatten you up because she will do it!

My wife did the same thing to me. But at least she had the decency to tell me she was going to fatten me up and promised she would like me bigger.

My wife was fat when we married (280) and she told me that she was going to fatten me up so I’d be bigger than her. I thought she was kidding, but 5 years later I’m 320 pounds and she has slimmed down to 170. She loves to tease me about how fat she has made me and how small she is in comparison. It’s kinda hot!

I’ve been rapidly gaining weight during my pregnancy. I’m in month six, and I’ve already gained 60 pounds. My husband is always bringing me sweets and treats every day. It’s nice and sweet of him, but I’m gaining too much weight!!

You need to slow down or you are going to end up gaining 90lbs plus. You will never lose that weight. I gained a lot during my pregnancy, never lost the extra weight and Now I’m stuck at 270lbs 4 years later. If you don’t mind, what’s you weight at present? Husband is doing you no favours.

I know I need to slow down! It’s bad! I was so unmotivated to exercise, then I started getting bigger and it was harder to move with the extra weight. And then I just kept eating and not moving enough. I was 155 lbs. when I got pregnant. I’m now 215 lbs. it’s my first pregnancy, so I’m not sure how my body will bounce back.

Oh, and forgot to answer the other part. I know my husband isn’t helping me, but he’s been so sweet and caring that I don’t want to discourage him and hurt his feelings. He also has said the extra weight looks ** on me.

Do you think he’s just trying to make you fat for after the baby comes?

That’s some fast weight gain, but don’t stress out too much about it. Your body is naturally designed to help shed some pregnancy weight, although maybe not as much as you have gained. I would suggest easing up on the treats and starting with some moderate exercise. It will help with your delivery and recovery if your fitness is better.

You’re gaining too much weight too fast. Your body won’t recover from that big of a gain.

My husband was very similar, although I didn’t have that big of a weight gain. But I just flat out asked him why he was trying to make me fat during my pregnancy, and he admitted that he was more attracted to bigger girls and asked if I would consider keeping some of the baby weight. He said watching me get bigger each month was a huge turn on for him.

After my wife delivered our last baby I fed her breakfast in bed for months. I gave her the most calorie Kaiden breakfasts which were healthy but also really fattening with butter and always a little desert to finish her off. She couldn’t resist, she ended up gaining 40 pounds more than her weight at her delivery day. She told me I was making her Fay but she didn’t care one bit because she couldn’t resist, her appetite was huge and she was spoiled. Going into the first pregnancies three plus years prior she was 140 pounds and after this she was 270 pounds and looking way more Beautiful than ever.

My wife has said she loves my “Corona belly,” which I guess refers to the weight I’ve gained not getting to go to the gym. It’s settling on my stomach. She claims she never wants it gone, and pats it and loves on it when we are on the couch watching TV.

I can’t leave my bf’s quarantine belly alone! It’s so cute and squishy and fat now!! I hope he never loses it. 💕

Sounds nice! How much weight did he put on?

My boyfriend is also getting a “Corona belly.” He has always been so fit, and I thought I liked abs, but then his abs started getting covered up with some soft, jiggly, belly fat. Now I think I like his belly more than I liked his abs.

How much fat did he gain?

My boyfriend has acquired a new friend during the virus, his new tummy. I’m a chef out of work at the moment, so I’ve had nothing better to do over the past few months that to overfeed him lol. You would think he’s swallowed a football.

How much weight has he gained since quarantine?

Answered for you above.

I’ve put nearly 30lbs on him since February. He’s stuck at home with me as well. All my rich sauces sticking to his tummy like glue. Never been to the gym in his life. Funny watching him the other day trying to do sit ups cause he knows he’s getting a good sized tummy on him lol.

I wish my boyfriend has a small chubby belly to play with. Instead he grown a big round belly which is solid like concrete. I’ve told him to do something about it as we are getting married next year. Any suggestions?

Hard belly fat is not good. Not healthy for him to have. How large is his stomach with a tape measure?
https://www.menshealth.com/weight-loss/a19543924/abs-diet-hard-belly-fat/

He has a 56inch waist.

Yes, then he is definitely too fat with bad fat on his body. He needs to lose about 15-16 inches to get to a borderline healthy range. That will still be on the fat end of the spectrum, but it should drastically reduce his health concerns in the future. And his ability to perform in other areas as well...

Thank you. But can he do it? I want him slimmer for the wedding!

Soft belly fat that jiggles is much healthier than hard belly fat that is solid. If you can’t poke the belly, it’s not good. Hard belly fat is on the inside, like between your organs, and more dangerous to your overall health than just a tubby, smushy belly.

Thanks, ok

I feel for you, a hard belly reminds me of a cop or something, whereas a flabby, jiggly belly on a guy is fun and hot and playful. The best way to turn a hard belly into a soft one is to lose and gain, lose and gain. The skin loses elasticity and everything starts going downhill. Good luck! :)

How much weight we talking about in the losing and gaining?

Gaining weight isn’t the worst thing in the world. I know my fiancé likes a fuller figure, so I’ve been gaining weight on purpose during our courtship. I’m up about 30 pounds. I still workout and go to the gym for fitness and to feel good, but I’m gaining the weight for him because I know that is what’s attractive to him. I’m much curvier now, which he loves.

Can’t argue with that. Where did you gain the extra 30 pounds?

Just all over. I gained in good areas - **, thighs, **. My face is a little rounder now. I have a little belly pooch now. But everything is proportional and he likes the extra 30 pounds. He says I look better being a little bigger than I was.

You Go, Girl! Do what’s best for you! A little fluff never hurt a relationship.

I’ve always been turned on by some soft tummy. I thought I was weird because I felt that way and have a slight fetish for seeing my boyfriend gain weight. Didn’t realize there are many women (and men) like me, who enjoy a little chubbiness.

Jump on the chubby train!

There's a old saying: no man develops six pack abs to date only one girl. Tread carefully around the gentleman who rather have a flat belly than a nice meal! But when he's sporting a keg 12 months into the relationship, he knows he's off the market. That's exactly what he needs to know!

Totally agree. Never trusted a man with a six pack. Losing it and gaining a big belly should be part of all wedding vows. My husband had one when we started dating, soon after it started going soft and then gradually forming into a big pot belly. I had him eating 2 dinners a night. One at teatime and the real killer for his abs, stuffed him at bedtime.

A man with a pot belly will always be a more secure relationship than a man with abs. Women, beware of the flat stomach!

Yea, my boyfriend has developed quite a large pot belly recently which has Made me feel more secure. Too much eating and drinking lol. It looks quite funny as he is skinny everywhere else. It hangs over his pants and I have had to buy him larger Tees and shirts to accommodate his big belly but drown his arms and neck.

Do you like his new size?

Sort of, but he has become clearly overweight. I just wish the extra weight would settle all over him instead of just his belly because it has started to get in the way when we are intimate. He assures me he can lose it anytime because he is young, but I’m not so sure about that.

As a woman, I agree. If a man is gaining weight, he is happy in his relationship and wants to stay. Not saying skinny guys want to leave, but a boy chubbying up on you is in for keeps.