My husband is getting fat

The length of the lockdown period due to the virus has resulted my husband’s spare tyre doubling in size. His appetite is huge at the minute and he eats all day due to boredom. Even getting up from the sofa due to the size of his tummy has become difficult.

How much does he weigh?

He weighs 305lbs now, 5 feet 4.

He is 5’4 and 305 pounds?! Or you are 5’4? 5’4 seems very short for a man...

He is 5’4 I am 5’2

How big was he before and how big now? Do you fancy his new size?

He was 255lbs and is now 305lbs. I like his bigger size even though he is becoming very overweight. Something to hang on to lol

My girlfriend of 2 years is currently 4 months pregnant. The problem is she was 300lbs when she fell pregnant and she told me she wanted to enjoy her pregnancy and “eat for 2”. She’s already 320 pounds and has told me she would like us to get married after the baby is born. I’m just worried I’m gonna have a 360lbs bride walking down the wedding aisle. Am I being selfish?

Probably, a little. She was already 300 pounds when you got her pregnant. But that’s big for a new mom. Just have an honest conversation about her health and energy level and how you can help her. Exercise together. Help her find time to cook and eat healthy. 360 pounds is too fat to take care of a newborn.

Maybe. It’s not selfish to be concerned about her weight from a health perspective because you want her to be around for you and your child. Maybe it’s selfish if you are thinking you will be embarrassed to see her walk down the aisle at that high quality of a weight. Either way, 300 pounds is a lot for a woman (or a man) and she probably needs to lose weight to avoid long-term health issues.

Enjoy it and have fun. I wish my wife would let go and just relax. I’m envious of you. Let her get as fat as she wants. Learn to love the process and compliment her all the time and I guarantee you that she’ll give you anything you ask for. Indulge her or send her my way and I’ll indulge her like a fat queen!

Yes I plan to enjoy the whole pregnancy with her. Both of her sisters are over 400lbs so they are not the best influences to have around because everything revolves around food. I’m even beginning to put on weight which I’ve never done before.

How much weight have you gained?

I have gained 20lbs so up to 160lbs

How much is your husband weighing these days? What's his pants size? Still fattening him up?

He’s around 300 pounds and wears a size 44-46 pants now. I’m not sure if I was ever intentionally fattening him up, but just trying to take care of him. Now that he’s a pretty big guy, I’ve been more careful about his weight. He’s definitely struggled to do things he normally could do really easily. So I’m trying to be more mindful of that, but I’m still very attracted to him and his new size.

My boyfriend is getting a little chubby on me, so I can relate to your post above. I didn’t think I ever wanted to be with a fat guy, but I’m finding myself more attracted to him at his heavier weight. Now, I don’t mind if he gets bigger. But you said he struggles to do some things now. Like, what sort of things? Thanks!!

See my reply above. I also still find my husband attractive, but I miss doing some of the things we did when he was slimmer, like playing at the park or going on walks.

I’ m sure his belly is huge now. Does the size of his belly make him struggle to do things he normally could do easily?

Yes, his stamina is down and his belly gets in the way. Its noticeable for him because he was slim before. It’s more difficult for him to bend down and tie his shoes, go up the stairs, take a shower with me or to do the dishes, for instance. He just gets tired more quickly or his belly is in the way.

That’s the downfall of having a fat hubby, it all goes on his belly. Does that frustrate you? Especially during intimacy? I know I have had to be more creative in that department. Also he doesn’t have as much energy.

Going from a size 32 pants to a size 40 pants is a fairly significant weight gain. How big could you possibly want a husband?

It depends on your preference. I have always liked larger men. My husband is currently bursting out of his size 60 elasticated waist pants. It’s funny watching him trying to struggle into them with his two big spare tyres in the way.

Size 60 is waaaaayyy too fat.

I have just ordered size 62 for him. Size 60 are too tight for him now.

My ex-boyfriend grew out of size 60 pants at around 370 pounds. So I'd consider moving up to size 64 or even 66 for your 400 pound husband.

Agreed. Too fat. Need to slim him down.

Yes, I agree as his frustrated wife he is far too fat. He is 400lbs now and I have tried every diet and encouragement, but he is a stubborn man.

Ultimately, the motivation has to come from him. Sometimes a checkup and associated blood test can help. Doctors always tell 400 pound patient's to lose weight, but a concrete diagnosis like Diabetes is harder to deny.

Squishy is my new nickname my girlfriend has given me. We started dating because we met each other at a gym and we are really into physical fitness. I’m injured and haven’t been able to workout and she’s (I think) purposefully made foods high in fat and calories since my injury. I’ve gained 12 pounds and lost definition on my abs. She now pats my still lean stomach and says she likes me squishy.

No one cares about you gaining 12 pounds, fatty! Go sulk in your gym. I hope she makes you actually FAT!!

Yep, exactly. Get over yourself!

My toy boy husband’s love of beer and my rich home cooking has caught up with him. We have been married for four years and he has piled the weight on due to my love of over feeding him.He now has acquired a massive pot belly and large love handles that encircle his waist. His pot belly moves in all directions when he walks, it must be uncomfortable for him. But I am enjoying his big gain especially playing with his big pot and grabbing his love handles. We were out recently and bumped into his ex who looked at him astonished and asked him when was he due lol.

How much does he weigh now? Are you planning on overfeeding him more?

He weighs 315lbs now, a gain of 140lbs after nearly 5 years! I don’t need to overfeed him now as his belly has stretched meaning his appetite is now huge. But I still enjoy over stuffing him at the weekends lol

You are purposely making him fat? Was his Ex happy that he’s fat?

I did initially as I prefer larger men lol. His ex had a look of astonishment and satisfaction when she saw the weight he has put on around his middle. She viewed me as the older woman who has put a big belly on her ex hubby lol

How does the hubby feel about his rapidly expanding waistline? Embarrassed? Content? Resigned?

How quickly has he gained the weight?

Since our marriage, just under 5 years.

Was your plan from the beginning to make him fat?

Has anyone here put a big belly on their partner and they resent it? My husband has gained over 100lbs in 2 years and he blames me, his wife, for gaining his big belly.

How did he gain that much that quickly?! I’ve put on about 50 lbs. over 10 years. My wife’s cooking has something to do with it, but that’s not everything.

Simple! He let himself go since the marriage. He gained 30lbs on our 3 week honeymoon and by the time of our 1 year anniversary he had gained another 30 lbs! I am a great cook and he enjoys his food, but takes his frustration of his weight gain on me.

When my hubby blames me for his huge belly, I try to be supportive, asking if he wants to work out with me, play tennis, etc. He usually says no. When I serve him lean protein and salad he pouts. Ultimately, he's responsible for managing his weight, so I'm not going to nag him, just love him and show that I find him attractive by cuddling his big belly.

Sounds like you’re being as helpful as you can be. How do you feel about his big belly? Like it or don’t like it?

Sounds like a big weight gain there?

Are you like a really good cook or something?

That’s. A. Lot. Of. Fat. Weight. Gained.

You resent putting the belly on him or your partner resents that you put the belly on him?

A lot of comments about fat people. It’s gross. Fat isn’t good. Get over yourselves and jump on a treadmill.

A treadmill would kill my fat hubby! His belly is so big he can’t touch his toes, put his socks on or do a single sit up lol

Then it’s the exact time to get him on a treadmill before he actually dies from his fatness.

My hubby will be getting on no treadmill. Too much time, effort and money has gone into fattening him up. I love all 450lbs of him. His overall health is good, he has just got some mobility issues that I mentioned previously. Anyway I have my reasons for keeping him this way.

What are your reasons?

Being fat is not fun or glamorous. I was heavy my whole life until a few years ago when I lost 40 lbs. with diet and exercise. I’ve never felt better physically or emotionally.

My husband was criticised for marrying a woman at nearly 400lbs. We have now been happily married for over 5 years and his weight has more than doubled in that time from 140 to just under 300lbs. I did not fatten him intentionally, I just started to cook for him what I liked to eat and the same portion sizes. He started to gain weight very quickly. I love his new size as he now has a huge solid tummy to carry around and a large double chin.

How does he feel about it?

He finds the extra weight has slowed him down, and he finds his big tummy restricts his movement. But his big tummy is a result of him becoming greedy and his eyes are now bigger than his belly when it comes to food. He has become lazy and resigned to being very overweight like me.

How do you feel about him gaining weight?

I love it lol. He was skinny when we married but within a few months he had a cute little pot belly. Now his tummy is huge! It now sits on his lap and I love to tease him and play with it. It’s bigger than mine and I weigh 450lbs now. Also I enjoy the reaction of his family as they stare in wonder at their once sporty son who is now obese like his wife they once criticised.

Do you plan on fattening him up even more?

A 450 pound wife is a good companion for a hubby who loves to eat. It's nice to have a fellow foodie and he can enjoy his food and know you really mean it when you say big is beautiful.

How does he feel about his weight gain? If I were you, I'd try to get him up to 450lbs as well so you two could be a matching set!

How much does he weigh nowadays?

This is exactly why I plan to marry a fat woman. It's getting too hard to stay thin as I get older. Why not enjoy meals and become fat and happy together rather than be stuck with some skinny B nagging me about my expanding waistline.

Besides, it would be nicer to put an end to this struggle with rich home cooked meals rather than sneaking out for fast food cause I'm still hungry with someone who makes only salads.

Just saw this post and read some of the comments. Count me in as a belly fan! I’ve dated a few boys with some extra belly and I loved it. I haven’t found the one to settle down with yet, but when I do, the plan will be to fatten that man up quickly!

Would you prefer to meet a man who is already fat and make him bigger or meet a skinny guy and put a belly on him?

Not sure. I’ve never dated a man who was skinny and then gained weight. Just men who were already bigger.

You wouldn't have to fatten me up, I'm already there. Are you a thick girl or a thin one? I too, love a woman with plenty of jiggle in her wiggle. So soft and **!! Lets make one another happy and loved. Good luck in your search. So want to love a belly fan. Take care.

I’m not fat fat, but I’m definitely bigger than I’ve ever been and have a bit of a tummy starting. I’m embarrassed about it a little, but I’ve noticed my wife is more affectionate and touchy than before. Like, when she kisses me before I leave to go somewhere, one hand is on my arm or shoulder and the other hand always finds my new tummy. She never did that before.

I’m a girlfriend with a rapidly expanding boyfriend. He is normally a gym rat and eats like crazy but works it off. Working it off hasn’t happened as much with his gym closed and he hasn’t changed his eating habits. He’s starting to grow a little belly and it is so ** to me!!! I love it!!

Hmm, I wonder if some of these women have a slightly dominant streak. You can pretend with ropes or make believe with handcuffs. A player can pinky promise loyalty or obedience until he's blue in the face. But fat doesn't pretend. Stretchmarks don't change their mind and weight gain transforms a physique and even a personality like nothing else. If a guy lets you ruin his hard fought abs with a stretchmarked spare tire, or even if he just doesn't notice his chiseled jaw becoming history, it's because he's really fallen for you.

For a while he can ignore it, but if his wife/gf is actively overfeeding, soon enough the gut will get heavy enough to force a decision. And you can trust that the butterball will mean what he says, because at a certain point, he'll know there's no going back with you.

Very true! Belly won’t lie, my friend.

It was incredible to fatten my husband "beyond the point of no return", which was roughly 250 pounds. It took me two years to put the first 80 pounds on him to get him there, but at that point, self-fattening took over In the five years since then he has put on another 185 pounds, to reach 435. He is so wonderfully fat now and we both know he is only going to get fatter. Even though we have had two children, I have kept my own weight under control and am now 45 pounds slimmer than our wedding day (I am now 135, 300 pounds lighter than him). Our relationship is great because now that he is so big and fat, I totally dominate him and he does as he is told. Don't believe what is said here about a big belly getting in the way. His belly hits my lady parts just right and our s e x life is great. My slimming down and getting fit helped a lot, since I have to do much of the work, but it is so worth it.

This doesn’t even sound real. 🧐

I’m pretty sure this is just made up and not true. 👎🏻

I don't know if this is real either, but I do know there are definitely dominant women out there. Contrary to media depictions, dominance is not a male-only trait. Nothing makes a man literally as soft and compliant and takes the edge off his ego like massive weight gain. You can pretend with ropes or cuffs, but fat will do it for real.

You are an amazing wife who has totally reshaped hubby physically and mentally to be your absolute minion. Pushing his feeding, submissive, and ** buttons must be driving him mad.

This is my hubby soon after we were married 7 years ago, and now. Which do you think looks the best? Thank you.

https://i.imgur.com/NDpUhvc.jpg

I didn’t see anything.

That looks like a 100 pound gain. He’s a total butterball now. If it were my hubby I would put him on a diet and tease him mercilessly about it! Did you also gain?

Wow, that is some weight gain! What a belly lol. He won’t be losing that in a hurry. What are you feeding him?

First picture, meh.
Second picture, that’s a nice belly!
Third picture, is there a man attached to that belly somewhere?!

Is that even real? His arms still look strong and skinny in the last pic...

This post, and most of the responding threads, were written by a guy who is gratifying himself at the answers, and responding himself. You've been trolled...it's pretty obvious it's a man who is into fat and writes "My hubby is getting fat and I love it!" Dont be punk'd.

I was wondering if people really felt that way based on some of the responses. There is a thing called feederism, though.

Yes, and I am a ** fat lover and lover of growing women. That's why I can spot a fake, like the OP, who is masturbating at the replies, and replying to his own thread.

What the original poster is suffering from is his own morbid desire to become obese, but he cannot find a woman to satisfy this need. So he goes on Fantasy Feeder and Feabie and such and pretends to be female saying "My hubby has gained 50 pounds!" and then writes dozens of replies. "Mine, too!" "How fat do you want him to be?" "At least 300 pounds!" "Yes, my hubby is obese, too, and I love it!" "I love his moobs!" In reality, even obese women do not want obese men, and that ** for guys into their own weight gain, they lead very lonely lives, mostly on line. I've seen it sooooo many times. I am a man who loves fat women but I am lucky that for the most part they like me back because I am kind, considerae, employed, a lot of fun, take care of them and adore them.

Interesting points by all, and I don’t disagree with you, but let me add:
- this website in and of itself is high likely not 100% the truth. So if you are looking for people always telling the actual truth, I believe you are looking in the wrong place. Also, if this site is 100% true, there are a lot of messed up people in this world.
- secondly, maybe he (or she), although I assume it’s a male, actually is celebrating bigness and overweight people with the comments. I know it provided me some different ideas (although, I will admit that I haven’t read them all), and some of it has been a delightful read - entertaining and interesting. A very escapist read for me. And I don’t think this person wrote all the comments here. No one has that kind of time.
- and lastly, it’s up to this individual if he wants to criticize these things or celebrate them, and most of the comments here are very positive. So if you are bigger or want to get bigger, that’s fine. It seems to be his fetish. And that’s fine. But we don’t need to be upset with him over it.

Those are my thoughts on the situation here.

The reason to get "upset," which is a rather strong word in this case, is because these lonely men then come to all the sites where fat people gather to get together, and they pretend to be someone they're not, and waste everyone's time. Then they get called out and banned, and they reappear. And they also use others' photos, I can't tell you how many times a DB will pretend to be female with photos entirely copped from someone else's profile. They are pathetic and destructive and they need to look at their own loneliness, desperation and lack of relating skills, which is why others stay away from them and they have mostly one-handed ** their whole lives and they have to come here and say "My husband is getting fat and I love it!" and troll everyone.

Well, I see your points.
But, you have to remember, this is not necessarily a site where people are coming together who want to get bigger (or date people who are big or whatever). It’s just a site where people confess things.
Like I said earlier, it seems to be his fetish (and maybe your fetish), so maybe you two have a lot in common and both just like reading and talking about it, which is cool. I liked reading it. No one is judging us for that. This is obviously a pretty open forum for that kind of stuff.
And the OP is not using photos or exchanging emails or asking to meet up or anything (from what I read), so it all seems pretty harmless to me (in this forum). But I didn’t mean to make you mad with my opinions. Just offering another perspective. Have a great day!

You really think one person left 1700+ comments on a thread? That's a lot of effort for a **. Might be *you* who has the over-active imagination.

Maybe some similarities in some of the comments, but you can definitely tell at least some of the comments expressed here come from different people based on different words, phrases, etc. It’s definitely NOT just one person, like you are saying it is.

Don’t feel guilty about it. You are taking care of him and he’s putting on weight. As long as you are still attracted to him (and it sounds like you are into his growing belly), then I don’t see anything wrong with it.