I dislike my girlfriend's daughter

I have been with my significant other for just over 7 years, and met her daughter when she just turned 11. From just one week of knowing the daughter I was able to figure out that she is a pathological and compulsive liar along with being one of the worst narcissist I have ever came across. She has a very selfish attitude and is a thief, most stuff stolen from me have been small things that if she would have asked I would have had no problems in giving them to her. I have confronted her on not taking possessions of others and if you ask you more than likely will receive it. It slowed for awhile; then important irreplaceable items came up missing, one such object was a vase from Japan that my grandfather brought home during his stay in Japan while the USA was helping repair the devastation of the Atomic bombs. This vase was one of very few that was made, plus it was the only thing I owned from my now deceased grandfather. Anyways, I noticed it was missing and scoured my home for it, not to be found. I asked the step if she had seen it she said no, a bit later I asked again and even asked if she accidentally took it, once again no, and she changed the subject to something that benefited her. A week later whilst speaking to her in her room and there was my loved base on her desk BROKEN! I asked her why did you lie to me and on top of it break it. Her excuse it was like that, and I deserve it anyways. I nearly throttled her. But left in disgust before I said something awful.
The narcissism and lies are beyond tolleration. She manipulated her mom via guilt, and constantly says she is the cream of the crop and all others are inferior. Lies about injuries, such as a server torn rotator cuff, that magically healed in 3 days, among other false illnesses that she says she has. There are so many instances of her lies and narcissistic tendencies that I can fill a book, but I won't go there. I have recommended and pleaded with her mother many times to get her into therapy, which her mother agreed. But the child refuses, and calls her grandmother and gives takes of woe is me story filled with fallacies and that she doesn't want to go to talk therapy. And her grandmother who is a bigot, and blames all her problems on others other than herself calls the mother and berates her to the point where my girlfriend is in tears. And threatens to take her daughter, and the little ** stick daughter gloats and says I'm going to move in with grandma's, your a pathetic mom anyways, I deserve it all, and I'm so pretty.
Thank God this child will be 18 very shortly and I am going to legally evict her and not allow her into my home very often. I hope I don't sound like a ** but the emotional damage she has caused to her mother and myself can no longer be tollerated.
Thank you for reading, I apologize for it being long essay. Any feedback is welcomed and thank you for your time.

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