My husband is getting fat

We've been married for 7 years. In that time I've put on some weight, around 40 pounds, but I've made sure my husband got really fat. He always has had a great appetite, and I like to see men get fat, so I keep him well fed and only cook really fattening dishes, which he loves. In those 7 years, I've managed to get him 350 pounds or so and am still feeding him lots of calories. I love his weight on me when we f uck, but now it's getting hard for us to fit except for certain positions, but we make it work!

What kind of fattening dishes? I want to learn some

350 pounds is nice foundation weight. Too fat to exercise, but with a big belly that’s constantly hungry and needs to be filled up. By keeping his belly full and pushing him beyond his limits, in a few years you can really fill him out. Can you imagine your hubby as a 500 pounder?

That’s too fat! Way too much weight.

I agree! Not only does it look horrible and holds you back in business, what about diabetes or heart attacks???

Haha that's adorable. Has his thing shrunk? How do you get around that? Do you think it's cute, if he has lost inches?

Have you ever talked to any of your friends and or know if any women you know that also likes their men Fat or were they willing to admit it. I mean it seems much more common than you would think. Women not only liking but encouraging by over feeding their husbands. My wife always seemed to like me in good muscular shape, but when I accidentally grew a huge belly, she seemed to keep feeding me even more and certainly seemed turned on by the much fatter husband she now had. She never verbally discussed it with me but the bigger I kept getting the ** and bigger fattening meals just kept coming. She seemed so confused with how Fat I became and continued to grow she didn’t even seem to mind that she was now the heaviest she had ever been as well. With you at what weight will you or would you stop letting your husband keep getting fatter, is the a upper limit or just see where it goes?

This is so adorable:

"but I've made sure my husband got really fat."

Taking care of your hubby by fattening him up is the ultimate expression of love!

You still feeding him? Has he gained any more?

I’ve never been fatter and my wife has never been happier

In Covid I gained 51 pounds. I'm not that tall so it's a lot - I'm 5'7 and at the moment I weigh 234 pounds. I'm just too lazy to try and lose it! My wife says I look 8 months pregnant, lol...and I've got a new pair of **.

Haha I assume the censored comment was "b-o-o-b-s." I don't know why but i think it's funny when guys get fat and they grow a pair, sorry LOL

Does she like her new man with his manternity look?

Both my wife and I porked up big time over covid, Our clothing was so tight but we went out in it anyway and we were not a lone. In our town its rare to see a skinny person anymore

I met my hubby at gym. He was toned, in a good shape, with his 6 pack, not so musculated. He was (and for me still is) like a God on Earth. By the way I'm also attractive for men, I'm a slim tonified girl with a nice **.

When we start dating we share gym sessions, but after the wedding he was getting lazy and said me so often that he must work at home or so on.

Now, two years later, he has a really noticeable potbelly amb I look like two years ago. Last weekend we went to a BBQ with my family and my father and brother were surprised and also happy that he starts to look like a 'real man' (they have a really large bellies). They were'nt worried about how the partner's of his daughter/sister looks.

By the way I should admit that I like how he looks and the security that he shows in himself. A few weeks ago he told me, joking, that it's good I go frequently to the gym to look nice at bikini season. I responded patting his belly and asking for his 'bikini season' and he smile and told me he looks now better than ever. And I should admit that he seems really attractive to me when he's at home just in underwear, with his belly sticking out, his tights tighter and his ** getting rounder.

You like his fatter look better?

Absolutely! I love the dominance of his new chubby body over my slim one! I love also his huge selfconfidence and the way he exiges me to keep fit while he indulges himself.

So glad to read this. I'm 5'7 and in the quarantine, my weight went up to 258 from around 200. But I have a partner who adores fat men and she has absolutely no problem with me gaining weight. There is nothing better than being able to eat whatever you want and get as fat as you want and your partner adores the fat on you! I just went up to a size 48/30 jeans! In high school my jeans were 30/30. I know it's not good for your health.

Any idea on where you will stop? I starting gaining since I retired and there is something rewarding and comforting about not worrying over weight and appearance and growing yourself into a 300 to 350 pound tub of lard.

I suppose I will stop when i start to have negative health, like blood pressure going up or similar. Last week at the doc's I was 271, so I'm still growing.

Checking in your weight gain status.

I agree that there are a lot worse things than a husband who puts on some weight over the years. At 20 I loved my boyfriend’s hard body. But life happens and with work and kids and the house it is only natural that he got bigger. He always puts us first and works really hard. He loves to eat and at the end of a long day I love to see him happy. I don’t think a belly looks bad on a man and he has a strong frame and can carry the weight. It’s not like he’s unhealthy big but after 20 years together he is about 125 pounds bigger which sounds like a lot when I type it but really isn’t. It’s just part of life. I tease him about it sometimes so that he knows I love him no matter the size. To be honest while I would support him if he wanted to lose the weight I don’t think he would look good at his age back to his skinny old self.

How do you tease him?

I call him fatty and tubby, and sometimes when I text him, I call him Fat Boy. (I mean when we're not arguing about something.) And sometimes he will sign off on a return text with "T" for Tubby. I also say "Your b.o.o.b.s are bigger than mine!" and "You're shrinking down there!" (Which is true, he has lost about an inch." (Devil horns)

So glad to read this! As I am 5'7 and recently passed 250 pounds with a 47-inch waist. I know it's not good for you but I am having fun with it and figure I can lose if any health problems show up. I know a person my height and size isn't the ideal man for many women, but I'm not giving up hope...or ice cream. Be well ladies.

Outstanding! Ice cream and cheesecake are cocaine to us fat men. How much ice cream can you eat at one sitting?

I love my fat husband! Ladies, it’s not the worst thing to have a bigger guy in your life. They are wonderful in every way!

How so?

THIS IS GOING TO KILL YOU!!! YOUR KILLING YOUR HUSBANDS!!!

You can be unhealthy when you are fat or skinny. “Fatness” isn’t the only measure of health.

No it's not the only one - but it's a pretty big one!

Its not you can be , its “you are” unhealthy when you are fat

Grammar and punctuation are obviously not your strong suit. Also, you might consider not posting in all capitals.

DID SOMEONE'S PARROT GET OUT? WE HAVE IT HERE. "SKRAWK! THIS IS GOING TO KILL YOU!!! YOUR KILLING YOUR HUSBANDS!!! "SKRAWK! THIS IS GOING TO KILL YOU!!! YOUR KILLING YOUR HUSBANDS!!!"

My hubby is gettin’ chubby during quarantine and mama is surprised with how hot his baby bump is!! 😘 😘

I was, too. I was surprised how attracted I was to my hubby as he started piling on some pounds. I loved his new body.

So glad to hear other wives react that way. My wife can’t keep her hands off my new found rolls and I thought we were the only ones.

Basement dweller Liar, women hate this,

Haha, food baby!

Haha! poke his belly! Tease him! Then snuggle him and let him crush you with his pounds while, you know...fat boy **!

It’s not my hubby getting fat, it’s me!! Long story short, I’ve been in fairly good shape my entire life. I found out recently that many of his past girlfriends were plus-sized ladies from one of his friends - high school, college, etc. He had never mentioned being into bigger girls before we dated and married. We’ve been together three years. So I recently asked my husband that if he could choose what weight I could be, what would he choose (I’m 5’5” and WAS about 125 pounds). He said about 40-50 pounds heavier. I asked him if he wanted me to gain weight and he said he wouldn’t mind a few extra pounds. Fast forward a year and I’ve gained about 20 pounds, and he loves it. I’m pushing close to 150, and I’ve never been this big! Not sure if I want to keep gaining because it’s just so foreign to me to not be in good shape. But he has been super sweet about my weight gain, so I’m a little conflicted!!

He is most likely into it but cares more about your happiness.

So sweet! I’m the same way. Have a strong preference for bigger girls, but the one I married wasn’t. She’s thickening up a little now, and it’s a dream come true.

How have your friends and family reacted? What are you eating to gain?

How do you feel about your new body?

How big are you willing to get? I think you have to ask yourself what you are comfortable with and determine how you feel about it first. If it doesn’t mean as much to you, maybe you do it for him. If it bothers you, you will always be mad at
Him for encouraging you to pack on some pounds.

Lucky man. I would really enjoy my wife gaining weight, but she’s a gym rat.

How much do you miss being slim and skinny?

Don’t worry about it, baby! I like my husband’s new size and weight and I’m sure that your husband does, too, especially if he’s already told you he wouldn’t mind you gaining some weight.

My wife has been more aggressive in her encouragement of me eating. She’ll order a big dish herself then casually slide her remaining portion my way. Or when I clean my plate, she’ll compliment me on doing a good job. I’m not into intentional gaining or stuffing. But subtly overindulging on a regular basis sure is taking an effect!

Have you been gaining any weight? Has she said anything about it yet?

Yeah, I gained during the pandemic, then added to that. Im up 65 pounds since the start of 2020. She hasn’t said too much. But her subtle encouragement has spoken volumes.

I think you should bring it up to her. She might not want to say something because she doesn’t want to hurt your feelings (if she’s not into it). If she is into it, and you ask, and she’s honest with you, it could open up a whole new phase of your relationship that you both could mutually indulge in and enjoy, and it wouldn’t have to be this hush-hush secret anymore.

Is this something new she has been doing?

Honestly, I didn’t notice it before. I’m not sure if she’s stepped up her efforts, or if I’m just finally tuned in.

My wife loves to serve me a massive portion,
casually mentioning that I do not have to eat it all. My ever-fattening belly is a testimony of how well I clean my plate and often get additional helpings so the food is not “wasted.” Later she will humiliate me for the pig I have become while loving the control she has over my feeding weakness.

It’s a dream come true for you, isn’t it?

It’s so weird, right? They say you don’t have to finish it all, which means we have to finish it all. My belly is sticking out right now from yet another demonstration of my lack of self control.

Anyone getting fat for a new year’s resolution?

I don’t need to make it a resolution. It’s going to happen regardless…

Same here!

This 250 lb tub is already gaining. 2022 is the year of the real fat man for me. Hopefully, this time next January, I'll will be waddling at the 350 lb mark.

100lbs in a year? That’s some dedicated stuffing. How’re you going to do it? And why?

I'm retired! No more worry over appearance and weight. I'm going to sit on my fat ** and eat until I can barely walk. My ball gut is going to hang halfway to my knees.

Almost 270 here, with massive gut which is a fat shaming target. Abuse increases my appetite, so further gaining is inevitable. Thanks for being a “roll” model 😀

Who is shaming you? What kinds of things are they saying?

I understand that. The name calling just makes me eat more. I can hardly wait until I hit 300.

I told my wife I have to lose weight this year and she smiled and caressed my bulging love handle. I’m thinking maybe next year, I’ll lose weight.

There is always next year to shape up! Sounds like your wife doesn’t want you to lose any weight.

The way she’s been over serving me over the holidays, I definitely got that hint!

Sooooooo, why do people do this Again? I understand it's a "fetish" but what justifications would you give to particpating or encouraging it?

Sounds like someone has never been with a man “of substance.”

I’m just attracted to bigness. I like things round and big. Whether that’s me putting on weight and filling out or a romantic partner. It’s just attractive to me. A pregnant belly is so **. Watching someone gain weight and move from size to size is alluring. Feeling that my pants don’t fit anymore is a turn on. Can’t really explain it. It’s just how I feel about it.

Totally this. I just love seeing someone have little control of some aspect of their lives. I love how watching a successful business person grow wider and wider. And yeah I love it when it happens to me. Can’t explain it either.

I think our society is so focused on thinness that we haven’t asked ourselves the other side of the question - What’s wrong with a little fat?

I ’m not so sure it’s a fetish for everyone. Some people are just attracted to fat, overweight, plus-size, etc.
Just like some people are attracted to a gym rat and that mentality, others are attracted to a soft body and that mentality.
I’ve dated thin and fat, and there are good things about both. Fat isn’t always bad. In some ways, fat has a regulating effect on some people in that they are kinder, more empathetic, etc. than similar people who are thin.

The same could be asked of thin people and some of the toxic culture and expectations around always being extremely in shape. What justification do people have for imposing that type of stress on someone?

My wife has gained 30-40 pounds during this pandemic, and I love it! I don’t think it’s as much as a fetish as I’m just attracted to her new curvier body in a way I didn’t realize I would be. Same woman. Same personality. Different body type now and I find it extremely alluring and **. I wouldn’t say I want her to keep gaining weight, but my level of attraction to her is higher than it was before she gained the weight. I find the weight gain to be very ** on her. I’ve tried to be very vocal and physical to show her how much I love her new size, and I think she is starting to believe me.

Fat is ** to some people.