My husband is getting fat

I’ve fattened up one ex-boyfriend and one husband so far.
The Ex gained about 45 pounds in two years (45 before we broke up. He actually said his weight gain was one of the reasons he wanted to break up because I didn’t motivate him to live a healthy lifestyle. He’s married now and probably gained another 30 after dumping me).
The husband so far has gained about 55 pounds. He was 175 when we started dating and he’s probably about 230 pounds now. At least last time I saw him weigh himself. All fat. 🙂 Well, mostly all fat. He’s starting to have a bulge under his t-shirt now and has a small doublish chin forming.
I can’t help it. I just am more attracted to a hefty body type, and I’m a good cook. Lovers beware!! LOL!! 😏

Honey, why do you want him to be fat? You want him to be around for the long haul, right?

Lol. To answer your question....no. There is reasons behind doing this stuff and it ain't all innocent.

Sadly, my wife could have written this. I’ve been gaining weight for years, have a massive gut now that I didn’t have before, had to buy new clothes and she seems happy with it all. I don’t get it. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Why would anyone ever want a fat spouse, husband or wife?

My experience is that fat men are more gentle and easier to get along with. So fattening a hubby up is a way of creating a better partner. Cheaper and easier than couples counseling!

Good point! Did you fatten up your husband?

I love that!! Bonding over food is in every relationship and culture. Most of our best memories involve getting together and eating. If feeding him a little extra makes him happy, then I say keep it up!! :)

I just posted above. Fat isn’t always bad, and some people look better when they are bigger. And some people like the feeling of being close to a weightier, bigger body - hugging, cuddling, **. So if you have someone who likes their partner bigger and someone who doesn’t mind being bigger, than sometimes people gain weight for someone else. It’s not necessarily a weird fetish, just a preference. It’s common, actually. And some people/couples just get fat on accident or throughout spending life together just and live with it.

Only if people really knew what this is about, lol.

Did the dynamics of your relationship change as you gained? Are you happier now?

I think she’s happier. She likes me fat. I’m happy because she seems to like it more, but not happy that I’m fat. I’m happy because she seems to be pleased. Whenever we snuggle or cuddle, her hands go right to my belly. Whenever we hug or kiss, her hands go right to my belly or love handles. She definitely is more physical the bigger I’ve become. I’m probably more than fifty pounds heavier now and have a noticeable stomach, and she seems to like it more than when I was skinny.

My husband is also getting fat!! On purpose!! Well, he doesn’t quite know that yet, but I’ve been fattening him up since Coronavirus started. He’s up 20 pounds since March and I love his new tubbier belly! 😂

Yes, a lot of new people at the gym recently. A lot of extra puffiness and pudginess on old people from the gym. Some extra belly and ** chubbiness that wasn’t there before the pandemic. Seems like this Coronavirus has helped fatten up a lot of people!! LOL!

How big do you want him to get?

Not sure. I just know I’ve liked him with a little more chubby around his middle recently. Any suggestions on how big?

I’m not the one who asked the question, but I would say a good 50-60 pounds from where he started is a good starting point, and then maybe bigger. 50-60 will change his physique enough for him to look fatter in his belly and face and make him feel fatter - tummy in his way, out of breath, new clothes.

With 50-60, you will definitely be able to tell. My husband was 190 lbs. and fairly fit when we married 15 years ago. He’s almost 250 lbs. now and he looks completely different. I forgot how skinny he looked (me too), until I saw some old pictures of us from when we were dating. (I’ve probably gained 40 lbs., but I had two kids!!)

50 pounds is enough to smooth off the rough edges. You’ll notice him be less angry, laugh more and be more considerate. If you are more of a dominant type you may want a bigger weight contrast, in which case another 50 pounds may be needed.

100 pounds sounds like a lot to me. Is that what you are suggesting? Based on desire or experience?

Why would you even ask this??

I’ve put on some weight over the last year, and I look different in clothes than I did before. Seeing all these encouraging comments from ladies makes me feel better about my weight gain.

Not so fast there. My husband has been stuffing his face since this pandemic started and he has put on 20-30 pounds, if I guessed. We had to go buy him new jeans and work pants because his fatter ** doesn’t fit into his clothes anymore (he was already obese). Not everyone is excited about all these fat dudes waddling around like pregnant women! 😤

Pregnant men! Ha ha ha! 🤰🏻 👶🏻

Perpetually pregnant🐷

I don’t mind a pregnant-looking, cute, round belly on my men.

Why would you want a man who looked pregnant?!

Agenda!

I’m a bit of a gym rat and prefer my man lean and trim, but I’ve been with some bigger men before and there is nothing wrong with some extra belly. It can be fun and cute!!

Big, round and fat bellies are the best!! 😍

Not if they look like pregnant man bellies!

My husband has gotten a little fluffy on me over the last few years. At first I didn’t like his new belly, but now I am used to it and really love him being a little fat. He’s much more fun to snuggle with now. 💕

Yes, exactly! Don’t knock it until you try it. Snuggling up on my man’s chubby belly is so soft and nice. 💗

I have always liked my men big. My current boyfriend was around 250 pounds when we met, with plenty of muscle (he played linkebacker in college). In March when quarantine started he moved in with me. After several months of not working out, and his hearty appetite, his weight has ballooned up to 290. The gym has reopened now and he has started to go again to build muscle again, but he's gotten so much bigger that cardio is difficult. He is now probably "beyond the point of no return" where he is going to get bigger and bigger. I really wouldn't mind if he got up to 400 pounds. I love the idea of riding a man so enormous that my knees never touch the bed.

Sounds like you’re boyfriend is going to get very fat quickly lol. Are you over feeding him?

My boyfriend did gain rapidly after moving in with me. I cook relatively healthy food and rarely make dessert. But he does have double and increasingly triple helpings. Now that he is working out again, I think his rate of gain will decrease. But unless he cuts back on his portions, he is headed for 350 at a minimum and probably 400+. He likes his food too much to lose weight. I refuse to nag him about his big and growing belly.

Did you purposefully make him fat?

If not for quarantine, my boyfriend would probably have only put on a few pounds. I eat the same food he does, but I have only gained 10 pounds in quarantine compared with his 40 pound gain. He has always had a big appetite, but relied on intense workouts 5+ times a week to burn off the calories. For a 250 pound man, he was quite fit - he could run a mile in under 9 minutes. Now that the gym has reopened, he can't workout as intensely or as frequently due to his big belly. He tried running a mile yesterday. It took him 18 minutes, and he was huffing and puffing.

Be careful! You don’t want him too fat!! 🍰

Yeah, my husband’s over 400lbs with a huge belly. He can hardly move in bed during **. He is exhausted quickly even with me on top. So try and keep his weight down love.

How was his belly and weight when you first started going out?

Has he gained any more weight? Are you still feeding him good? What's his weight now? Good luck getting him to 400+lbs!

I like plus-size women. I always have because that body type is just very attractive to me for whatever reason. I’ve dated a lot of skinnier girls before, and a few times in longer relationships they have packed on some pounds once they knew my preference.
My current girlfriend was about 120 Lbs. when we started dating two years ago. The other week she told me she wants to diet because she’s almost 170 Lbs. now and she’s never been this big. I told her I loved her body, and would support whatever she wanted to do, but that I would prefer she doesn’t diet. We will see what happens, but I hope she stays a little fat for me.

50 pounds??!!!
In two years??!!!
What did you do to her??!!!
🧁 🍟 🍕 🍦

I don’t know exactly, but I’m guessing she was about 120 lbs. when we started dating.
She is still incredibly beautiful at a heavier weight, and I’m personally more attracted to her now than before, both physically and emotionally.
I didn’t do anything to her besides love and support her and date her, which can include going out to eat.
She’s gained about half a pound a week just from living her life and having someone in her life that doesn’t care for her to stay one specific dress size.
She says that despite being heavier than ever before, she is also the happiest she has ever been. And that should be more important, in my opinion.

Thanks for sharing!! Big girls can be a lot of fun, but we often don’t get as much attention from the boys. ♥️

True. I think men, in general, are socialized to see beauty at a certain weight thanks to magazines like the Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition. That’s just one body type, and there are a lot of men who are naturally attracted to a fuller figure, but sometimes are ashamed if they indulged in that desire.

How big do you want her? Why do you want her to be fat for you?

170 lbs. seems really ** to me right now, so I like her size now. I would probably be OK with another 20 lbs. if she put on more weight.
I want her to be just a little fat. Not huge. Cuddling and snuggling is better with some meat on her bones. I’ve you’ve been with skinny women and then curvy women, you would understand what I mean.

My boyfriend quit working out when the Coronavirus hit, and I jokingly told him I wanted to fatten him up. He jokingly agreed, but didn’t think I was serious. Since then, he definitely has a belly poking out now that it’s been about six months. I measured his stomach back in March and then again last week. Not sure how much weight he has gained, but his belly is five inches bigger now!! 😂😂😂😂😂

He has probably gained around 35 pounds.

That sounds like a lot of weight, but I’m not really sure. Maybe it is 35. His body and belly definitely look different and he’s much squishier than before. When I measured him before it was 35 inches around his stomach, and it was about 40 inches around his belly earlier this week. So it’s about an inch bigger each month he’s not working out. 🤣

How did you guess he has gained around 35 pounds?

Every 7 pounds gained corresponds to an inch around the belly, roughly.

Oh, wow! OK. I’ll have to ask him. You know that from like science or from gaining or losing weight yourself?

My girlfriend has been growing a little pot belly muffin top recently. It’s cute, actually. I don’t mind if she stays this way.

Did you really want to fatten him up or were you joking?

My husband is also getting fat, but I’m not as happy about it as you are. When we married, he was probably 160-175 lbs. Looked trim with a strong and thin chin line. He got on the scale last week and is in the 230-range. He’s got an emerging pot belly now and a double chin forming. I’m not excited about it. I still love him, but I don’t love his new physique. 😞

Is it that you aren’t attracted as much or that you feel his weight gain is signaling something else, like laziness or taking your relationship for granted or something?

Physically, I don’t prefer him looking chubby. Just not as attracted to that as a physical look. I’ve always been attracted to lean and healthy. I still love him more than anything, I just don’t know if I met him in a bar today if I would have been as interested just based on his current weight. I don’t think it’s necessarily lazy. I think he has just put on weight due to life and how busy he can be with work and family. I still think we are both very committed to each other and our relationship, so no concerns there.

What are you going to do now that he is fat?

I’m not sure I would call him “fat” right now, but he is trending that way. I’m not sure I can do much besides cook healthy meals and encourage him to exercise with me. I’m still attracted to him, just not as into the belly and extra chubbiness that some ladies on here seem to be.

Good for you, honey. I have a hard time getting past his massive belly where I used to see abs. Just use my imagination and remember sexier times...

Lucky man! I told my wife I was tired of watching my weight and always wanted a great big belly. At first she was kinda cool to the idea but now it’s a different story. I’m a big guy, 6’3” and was generally around 240 lbs. I’m not approaching 300, my gut has ballooned nicely, 56” round, and I get some sensual belly rubs and our ** life has flourished nicely. I’d love it more if she’d encourage me, pat my belly, get second/third helpings or even feed me with the intent to make me bigger. I love the sensation of the big belly bounce and she loves the feel of the flesh against her womanhood when we’re physically connected.

If you are enjoying it, feed him sometimes. Buy a box of donuts and tell him you expect them to be gone by the end of the day. Make him cupcakes, huge lasagna dinners, etc.

And if he balks or says no, feed me! Lol. Best of luck!

You sound like a big man!! Does she like your size? Do you like it?

So she helped you gain weight at first and then stopped because she didn’t like it?

You want to be fatter than you already are?

I don’t understand this.

Why would you want to do that to yourself?

My BF has kinda a mini belly, like not too fat but not abs anymore. I love it!! Not sure I want him to get any fatter, but definitely not skinnier. It’s too cute and cuddly! 🥰

Good for you, baby. Just wait until his tummy looks more like a baby belly, then you might have a different opinion.

My hubby always jokes and says he wants to get me pregnant so I’ll get fat for him. Not sure how I feel about that, or if it’s really a joke or not. Thoughts?

Not sure I understand. He wants a baby or he wants you to be heavier?!

Creating another human life so a woman can inflate for nine months is one of the stupidest reasons to reproduce I have ever heard, and I think that's why a lot of people exist today. Humanity is a very stupid cancer.

I’m not sure that’s why men get women pregnant. I think that happens so the human race can continue. But anyway, I think what this lady was saying is her husband jokes about her being bigger, either pregnant or fat. My guess is he wants to have a baby AND he wants her to gain and keep some weight on. Not sure, but that’s just my guess. I know with my wife, I was extremely attracted to her pregnant version of herself. She was incredibly ** each pregnancy.

I loved watching my girlfriend “inflate” when she had my baby. Then, while she was pregnant, she made me eat more, too. When we left the hospital with our baby girl, she was 10 lbs. heavier and I was 30 lbs. heavier than when we met. 😂

I loved when my wife was gaining weight during pregnancy. She was too skinny anyway, so when she had a baby she would really fill out. Like 50-70 lbs each pregnancy. I miss how big she would get.